Each child is unique, much like a snowflake. Children have their own likes and dislikes, temper or calmness, and you need to adjust your parenting style to work with their listening style. Here are some ideas given to us by parents who have raised their children and survived.
For parents of children who are picky eaters, it is important that you give the child whatever they like. Although you may feel frustrated that your child is eating the same foods, it is important that they eat something, even if it is the same thing over and over again.
Make sure you’re teaching by example. Your child is much more apt to learn behaviors when you exhibit these behaviors. It’s been proven that children learn by mimicking those around them. So if you’re telling your kids not to yell in the house and you’re doing it, they’re more likely to follow what you do than what you say.
A tip that goes unheeded by far too many parents is the suggestion that they remember to take time for themselves. Setting aside some personal time to decompress and maintain hobbies and interests will help moms and dads stay energized and engaged in the lives of their children. This will lead to a happier, more fulfilled family.
If you have more than one child, it is important that you pay the same amount of attention to all of them, no matter what their ages are. You do not want one child to be neglected– this could cause them to show resentment toward you when they get older.
Limit the amount of television your child watches each day. Too much television is bad for your child, mentally and physically. It is one cause of childhood obesity, can lead to poor eyesight, and contributes to feelings of anxiety. Have your child play with toys or go outside instead.
For many parents, having a child who is polite in social situations is important. Want your child to say “please” and “thank you”? Children learn from the adults around them, so make sure that you’re using those words frequently yourself! Use them in conversations with your spouse, children, or the other people in your life, and your child will follow suit!
A great parenting tip is to give your children some privacy sometimes. If you’re always paranoid about what they’re doing or who they’re hanging out with, you can lose a lot of your children’s trust. Learn to back off from time to time and let your children have some privacy.
If you have a youngster that is having a difficult time with cutting teeth, invest a couple of dollars into a mesh teether and place cold carrots, apple slices or other crunchy fruits and veggies in it. There are many methods that work for relief, but if the item the child is chewing on contains a taste then he will more than likely keep chewing on it. Encourage them to chew for as long as they desire, and the longer this is, the better their mood should be.
Your children are precious, but aren’t really like a snowflake. They won’t melt if you do the wrong thing, so feel free to experiment with your parenting style until you find something that works. Kids are amazingly resilient, so supply lots of hugs and kisses when things do go wrong and everything will be okay in the end!